Top tips for mental wellness
Top Tips for Sustaining your Mental Wellness Through the Coronavirus
By Rachel Kelly, Writer and Health Activist, and ambassador for SANE and RETHINK MENTAL ILLNESS
- Make your bed first thing
Every morning, make your bed to your own satisfaction, the duvet nice and straight and the pillows plumped. The act of achieving and controlling something as soon as you wake up puts you in the right mood to continue a sense of control throughout your day. You have the power to affect your own thoughts and feelings. Start as you mean to continue – make a promise to yourself to look after your mental health all day long by being as calm as you can first thing in the morning.
- Use breathing exercises, the simplest being to block one nostril
When we are anxious, our breathing becomes fast and shallow. When we breathe more slowly this forces our racing minds to slow down as well. It can help to close one nostril with a finger – this means we breathe at half the rate than normal. You can only breathe in the present, so it’s the best way to be calm and centered. When we are anxious, we worry about the future and regret the past. Breathing keeps us in the present.
- Look after your physical health by exercising, getting a good night’s sleep and eating a balanced diet, with plenty of ‘happy foods’
Our mental health is closely linked to our physical health. So, get outside, go for a walk if you can, respecting the need to stay a few metres from others; go to bed at a sensible time each night; and nourish your body, with these top three mood-boosting foods: oily fish (like salmon, anchovies and tuna); dark green leafy vegetables like kale, cabbage, and spinach; and dark chocolate.
- Connect with others by being kind, even if it is remotely
Connecting with others by being kind and grateful has a very real effect on our happiness. We become kinder to ourselves and also become more accepting of others. Clearly, it is impossible to do this easily in person at the moment, but it is still possible. Here are some ideas of what you might do:
- Smile at someone if you pass them in the street or in a shop
- Pay attention to what someone is saying when they talk to you. Spend more time listening to others and less time talking at them (there’s a reason we have two ears and only one mouth!)
- Offer to help someone locally by dropping off food or medical supplies, if you are able to
- Send a supportive text
- Start a WhatsApp group with friends to share any positive news, such as steps to find a vaccine
- Be in the present by doing an everyday activity in a mindful way
Mindfulness is a way of focusing attention on what we are experiencing in the moment. The trick is to remember to be mindful! Make a few everyday activities mindful ones. You could start with washing your hands in a mindful way, or you could also choose from doing any of the following in a mindful way:
- Brushing your teeth
- Doing the washing up
- Tidying your room
As you do your activity, pay attention to all the sensations you are feeling. If your activity was washing your hands, feel the coldness of the water, hear the sound of the tap, smell the soap. Use these mindful moments to slow down and enjoy what is happening in the present.
- Change your negative thoughts by remembering to ‘Catch it, check it, change it!’
Our thoughts, feelings and behaviour affect each other. Watch out for your negative thoughts. First, recognise them. Let’s say you are catastrophising about the virus. Your negative thought is that everyone you know and love will be affected. Step two is to check that thought – is it really true? And then third, change the thought. So maybe say to yourself, I am prepared, I am taking precautions, most people recover well. It isn’t always possible to do this, but the important thing is to remember you can challenge your thoughts and be flexible.
- Do something new by learning this poem
Setting a new goal or learning a new skill can be a great way to feel a sense of achievement. So, try learning a poem! This one is a great choice, as its message is that we appreciate good times more by having experienced the bad. In fact, we would not appreciate sunnier times without living through the rainy ones.
The Rainbow, by Charles Mackay
Oh you tears,
I’m thankful that you run,
Though you trickle in the darkness,
You shall glitter in the sun
The rainbow could not shine if the rain
refused to fall,
And the eyes that cannot weep are the
saddest eyes of all.
- Keep a gratitude notebook
Focus on what you are thankful for. Find a notebook, and then every evening write down in as much detail as you can three things you are grateful for. They could include:
- A yummy meal
- A beautiful day
- Making a cake
Being more conscious of our fellow human beings.
- Imagine a Happy Place
We can create or experience visual pictures in the mind even if at the moment we cannot go there. Close your eyes and remember somewhere you last felt really happy.
- What did it look like?
- What did it smell like?
- What were the colours and scents?
- Were you with anyone else?
Write down here what your own happy place looks like. Mine is by a stream in the Lake District. Then bring to mind your happy place whenever you feel stressed.
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A Donation to the Festival
Following the cancellation of this year’s Festival, we have been asked by some ticket holders whether they can donate the cost of their refunded tickets or about general donations to the Festival.
While this is completely voluntary, we would appreciate any help you can give in these challenging times and we will use this money towards running some online events during the Festival period, which will help some of the authors whose events have been cancelled.
(Meanwhile, please bear with us while we process refunds.)
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Amanda Owen: The Yorkshire Shepherdess (Marsden)
Sunday 27 September, 3pm
Venue: Marsden Mechanics
If you hold a ticket for the original date (22 March), please keep hold of it and bring it in print or digital format (we will also have audience lists on the door).
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The cut-off point for refunds for the original date is 31 August 2020.
NOTE: this event is currently SOLD OUT.
From teenage Goth in Huddersfield to rural sheep farmer…
Star of the C5 series, Our Yorkshire Farm, Amanda Owen grew up in Huddersfield but was inspired by the James Herriot books to find work as a shepherdess, cow milker and alpaca shearer. Today, she runs a 2,000-acre sheep farm at Ravenseat in the Yorkshire Dales, along with her husband Clive and nine children.
A Sunday Times bestselling author, Amanda has entertained readers with her trademark Yorkshire grit and humour in The Yorkshire Shepherdess and A Year in the Life of the Yorkshire Shepherdess. Her latest book, Adventures of the Yorkshire Shepherdess, is an uplifting and inspiring update on life on the farm, from facing the brutal winter of 2018 to renovating an old farmhouse as a new family home.
Voted ‘Yorkshirewoman of the Year’ by The Dalesman magazine, Amanda has also appeared on ITV’s Countrywise and The Dales, and in Ben Fogle’s New Lives in the Wild.
Amanda will be interviewed by BBC Radio York presenter Jeremy Buxton at this fun and entertaining event for Mother’s Day.
No age restrictions (Under 16s should be accompanied by an adult).
For accessibility information, please contact the venue on: 01484 844587.
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To show how much we appreciate our Friends, we have put together a package of benefits.
Friends of the Festival enjoy:
- Friend of the Festival membership badge and certificate
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- Invitation to meet the author or performer at an event of your choosing
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